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Leading:
Dear guests! Our young people ask you to come to the festive table.

Music. Guests take their seats at the wedding table.

Leading:
I ask the guests to prepare for the first wedding toast. Men, please grab some champagne and get ready to fire the first wedding salvo in honor of the newlyweds. They give a countdown: 5, 4, 3, 2, 1... salvo!

Guests fill glasses with champagne.

Leading:
I ask everyone to stand and support me at the end of the toast.

Music, the first toast sounds in the background.

Dear Ivan and Maria!
On your big day
We wish you only happiness.
Have a nice meeting
And sunny roads.
Success in business
And in the family there is harmony,
Not knowing grief and anxiety!
God forbid you grow old in soul,
Keep your love like a talisman,
And in good time on the straight road
Hand in hand, go for the rest of your life!
We congratulate you all together,
We drink wine for you!

While the guests drink the first glass and have a snack, the host reads out the rules of behavior at the wedding.

Leading:
Friends! I think that after each toast you will drink so that you can see the ceiling through the bottom of your glass;
The first three glasses must be drunk (the rest will go on their own);
Let everyone present take an active part in the celebration, otherwise his behavior will be considered a blatant disgrace;
adhere to the rule: if you pour yourself a drink, pour a drink for your neighbor, if you get drunk yourself, give your neighbor a drink;
Having heard the music, do not sit at the table, but start dancing, not sparing your legs. If you can't dance standing, dance sitting.
It is strictly forbidden to: sleep at the table, especially while snoring;
skip toast;
sing songs under the table; smashing dishes over your neighbor's head;
eating with a fork from someone else's plate;
all unmarried and unmarried people leave separately;
The worst crime is leaving a wedding with a dull face.
Leading:
So that we have no room for boredom.
We will congratulate the bride and groom!

The presenter picks up a beautifully decorated bottle and explains the rules of the game. While the music is playing, all guests pass this bottle from hand to hand. The one who has it after the end of the music gets up, pours himself a glass of wine and makes a toast in honor of the newlyweds. The bottle “stops” 5-7 times.

Leading:
Dry the glasses to the bottom.
Loud for newlyweds...
Guests:
Hooray!
Leading:
Oh, you are dear guests!
It's as if you were family
Everyone here shout “Hurray!”
In honor of the bride, groom.
But look left, right
For fathers and mothers.
What we grew tirelessly
Sons and daughters.
Dear bride and groom!
Today, on this holiday, there will be many wishes addressed to you, but what could be warmer and more precious than the words of your dear mother and father? I turn to the bride's parents.
Let everyone hear at this hour
Your parental order.

Order from the bride's parents.

Well, parents of the groom.
It's time to give you your order.

Order from the groom's parents.

Leading:
There is an old custom in Russia,
He is many years old, many centuries old:
Congratulations on your wedding day
Parents of brides and grooms.
Dear parents!
Let time fly
But don't get old.
Let the grandchildren grow up.
Be young at heart.
Good health to you, huge growth.
We raise a festive toast for you!

The guests are drinking.

I wonder if the parents remember the time when they were the same as the bride and groom. Dear parents! Try to answer my questions.

Each parent is asked one question.

What time of year did you meet your spouse?
What day of the week was it?
What was the weather like on the day of marriage registration?
What was your spouse wearing on the day you met?

Thanks for the answers.
Dear newlyweds!
Don't forget the first meetings
And the rings that you picked up,
Be able to save until the end.

The song sounds " Parents' house» Parents are invited to dance.

Leading:
How joyful it is to be
At the grandchildren's wedding
And see them as
Young spouses.
I want to say so much, wish
And in life path give parting words.
The floor is given to the grandparents of the bride and groom.

Congratulation.

Leading:
Dear... (names of grandparents)!
Let the years pass more slowly
May your grandchildren bring you joy
And here is our main covenant:
Live healthy up to a hundred years!
I propose to raise a glass of wine to the grandparents of our newlyweds!
Leading:
There is no better honor than serving the bride and groom. I would like to introduce you to the best friends of the bride and groom. Meet... I will ask them to stand and congratulate our young people.

Congratulations to the witness and witness.

Leading:
Since you best friends newlyweds, you know very well their advantages and disadvantages. Assignment to the witness: praise the groom. Assignment to the witness: to praise the bride.

Witnesses carry out the task.

Maybe the guests would like to add something?

Guests help the witnesses praise the bride and groom, listing their merits.

Leading:
Witnesses! I'm turning to you,
After all, you are not just friends to the young people.
Beyond your friendships,
Having signed by hand,
You have shouldered a heavy load -
Keep control over new family,
And you must answer in front of everyone:
Are you ready to help young people?
Witnesses:
Yes!
Leading:
We will now be convinced of your help,
We are trying to check you out as soon as possible.
You will perform this task in pairs: a witness with the bride, a witness with the groom.

Each pair is given one scissors and a landscape sheet with a heart drawn on it.

With both of you holding different rings of scissors, you need to cut out the heart. Whose couple will complete this task faster? Are you ready? Let's start!

The results of the competition are summed up.

And now, dear bride and groom, show all the guests the hearts you have created.

Leading:
From now on, two hearts sound in rhythm.
The union was held together by two rings.
Now along the abyss of life
The two of you will go to the end.
Assignment to the bride and groom: give each other your hearts while saying the most important words.

The bride and groom give each other their hearts.

The bride is given a broken chair, nails, and a hammer. She completes the task given to her.

Leading:
Ivan, we ask you to evaluate Masha’s work.

He checks and stands with his feet on the chair.

Leading:
Yes, a real wife should be adapted to everything. Some say that a wife is a suitcase: it’s hard to carry and it’s a pity to leave her, others say: she’s a diamond in the setting of our lives. Ivan was lucky. Let's drink to his diamond and wish him good health!

The guests are drinking.

Leading:
Bride! We approve of your decision and choice,
But we will now test the groom.
Imagine, Ivan, this situation: Some time passed after the wedding, and your beloved wife gave you twins. One day she left for the whole day to do her business, and left you with two children.

In front of the groom there is a coffee table on which are 2 dolls, 2 caps, 2 vests, 2 rompers, 2 plates, 2 spoons, 2 glasses, 2 toothbrushes, 2 diapers.

Your task: get the children out of bed, wash them, brush their teeth, feed them, take them for a walk and put them to bed by singing a lullaby. Get started!

The groom completes the task.

Leading:
My toast, friends, for endurance,
Self-confidence.
Sometimes it's hard to nurse
Two children in the family.

They drink toast.

Leading:
Come on women, all together
Let's envy the bride.
And the bride is just a dawn,
Come on, let’s shout “Bitter!” together.
Leading:
The last test of our newlyweds will show all the guests whether the bride and groom are suitable for each other. To do this, the newlyweds will have to show mutual understanding and mutual assistance. Assignment: holding hands, the two of you with your free hands try to tie one bow from a satin ribbon.

The newlyweds complete the task. The presenter sums it up.

Leading:
Dear Ivan and Maria!
To grief and sadness
In your life you don't know.
We invite you today
Dance the dance of happiness.
I think the guests will support the bride and groom and form a ring around them.

Dance department . Music is playing. The bride and groom perform a dance. The guests, holding hands, walk around the newlyweds, first to the right, then to the left. During the dance break, the following competitions and competitions can be held.

"Portrait of the Bride and Groom." 2 teams of 10 people are selected. In front of each team, at a distance of 4-5 m, a sheet of whatman paper is attached to the wall. The first participants are given a marker so that they are blindfolded. Participants in teams agree among themselves what details of the portrait each of them draws (ears, nose, head, hair, eyes...). Tasks: first team with eyes closed draw a portrait of the groom; the second team, with their eyes closed, draw a portrait of the bride. The winner is the one who draws the portrait faster and more accurately. The following competition rules are observed. The competition begins at the signal of the leader. The first participant, having completed the task, returns to the team and passes the marker and scarf to the second participant, who blindfolds himself and continues to draw a portrait, returns to the team, etc.

"Ball".
Leading:
Attention! The gentlemen invite the ladies, everyone gets into pairs. This dance will definitely lift your spirits. Everyone dances while the music plays. As soon as it is interrupted, all gentlemen must stand on their left knee and put their right knee in front of them. The lady runs around the gentleman and sits on his exposed knee. The lady who sits down last is eliminated from the game along with her gentleman.

Leading:
Our wedding continues
Here at this wedding table.
And the fun doesn't end at all,
We drink to the bride and groom.
Guests, pour some glasses,
Drink every drop.
Just, friends, just check,
Isn't the wine really bitter?
Bitterly! Bitterly! Bitterly!
Dear newlyweds!
It was not in vain that I came to your wedding
All the groom's relatives.
I ask the groom's relatives to rise. Imagine, please.

Meeting the groom's relatives.

The groom's relatives have prepared an unforgettable gift for you.

The groom's relatives are given comic musical instruments: a bunch of keys, a rustling bag, a saucepan lid, a rattle, a children's pipe, a grater with a fork, etc. The presenter prepares the lyrics of the songs “We wish you happiness” on a card in advance. The groom's relatives perform an excerpt from this song to the accompaniment of their comic musical instruments.

Leading:
Thank you! Please introduce yourself to the bride's relatives.

Meeting the bride's relatives.

This party will also not remain in debt and will perform a wedding song for you.

The soundtrack of the song “Smile” plays. The bride's relatives sing new words to this tune.
Advice and love!
Sing with us more joyfully.
Let the whole district ring with this song,
Like a groom and his bride.
So let's fall in love with each other.
Chorus: And then for sure
We will glorify the groom
And his same bride.
From the blue stream
The river begins
And at the wedding this song
Very appropriate.
May it become brighter for everyone today.
Our house will “shudder” with joy.
Shout: “Bitter! Bitterly!" don't be sorry.
It won't take long to persuade them.

Leading:
Like at a wedding table
Two families gathered
Two different people.
How did our newlyweds get married?
This is how their families became related for life!
Dear bride and groom! Follow the folk wisdom: “If you love me, love my family too.” And you, dear relatives of the bride and groom, from today have found family friendship and brotherly help. I propose to raise a glass to the relatives of the bride and groom!
Leading:
And now I will ask the young friends to rise and introduce themselves to all the guests.

Meeting the friends of the bride and groom.

In honor of our newlyweds, friends perform the fiery “Apple” dance. I propose to divide into pairs and place an apple between the foreheads of each pair. Your task: without using your hands, hold an apple with your foreheads while performing dance movements. So, hands to the sides! Let's start!

Cheerful music is playing. Friends of the bride and groom perform a dance.

Well, without hiding our hot feelings.
I want to raise my glass
For the true ones, for the real ones,
Here's to the most loyal friends!

Leading:
Our dear guests!
You came to the wedding together,
Flowers, gifts, toasts
They brought it for the newlyweds.
Come on, guests, don’t be stingy,
Share your generosity!

Giving gifts to young people.

Dance department
Dance fun "Lower and Lower". Two people at a certain height hold a 5 m long ribbon, under which all participants must pass in turn, while performing dance movements. Gradually the ribbon lowers. The game is played until one of the most flexible participants remains.

Dance fun "Locomotive". Two male participants are selected. Their task: to kiss as many women as possible at the wedding on the cheek or hand. The one who was kissed becomes a train behind her man. Whose train is longer? The game begins at the leader's signal.

Leading:
Dear guests! Today is also famous for the fact that the parents of the bride and groom are given new titles. ... becomes a mother-in-law. (A medal is awarded). ... father-in-law. (A medal is awarded). .... from today is called mother-in-law. (A medal is awarded). ... father-in-law. (A medal is awarded).
In order for the new titles to be firmly assigned to the above-mentioned people, it is necessary to arrange a test for them. Everyone knows that at first young people will have difficulties in family life. Often they will turn to their parents for advice. Dear parents! Imagine this situation: you are in a hurry, late for work, and at the last moment you hear a phone call. In a hurry, you pick up the phone and quickly answer the question. The son-in-law will call the mother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law will call the mother-in-law.

Parents are given a children's phone. The presenter acts as a telephone caller.

Son-in-law (father-in-law):
Hello, my light doesn’t light up here, what should I do?

Dialogue between son-in-law and father-in-law.

Son-in-law (mother-in-law):
When will the sausage arrive?

Dialogue between son-in-law and mother-in-law.

Daughter-in-law (mother-in-law):
What if it is not sewn on?

Dialogue between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law.

Daughter-in-law (father-in-law):
Tell me the animal from 7 letters.

Dialogue between daughter-in-law and father-in-law.

Leading:
Well done! I drink to my mother-in-law and I drink to my father-in-law,
I also drink to my mother-in-law and father-in-law.
Come on, guests, let's have a drink together
For this friendly family!
In order for this large family to become even closer friends, I propose to perform the dance in the following couples: groom with mother-in-law, bride with father-in-law, mother-in-law with father-in-law.

Performing a dance to the friendly applause of the guests.

Leading:
A goose flew past the wedding,
Came to visit us for a holiday.
His father-in-law immediately caught him,
The father-in-law quickly plucked it.
His mother-in-law washed him instantly,
And my mother-in-law already salted it,
And finding a place in the oven.
The bride made the dish.
The groom himself got the goose
And he showed it to everyone.

Goose for sale.

Leading:
I propose a toast to a beautifully prepared dish that a large family worked on. Here's to a successful goose sale!

At the end of the wedding evening, all guests see off the newlyweds. The bride throws the wedding bouquet.

Leading:
Come on, everyone stay still.
Now we will entrust the bride
Throw your wedding bouquet:
Whose wedding should you celebrate next?
Close your eyes Maria. And spin...
Say goodbye to your wedding bouquet!

The bride throws a bouquet to the guests. Tradition says: whoever catches the bouquet will soon celebrate the beginning of family life.

(Material from the site prazdnikby.ru)

Option 4

We meet the young people at the porch. Guests stand on both sides of the path from the car to the porch. Everyone should have rice and coins in their hands. While the young people are walking from the porch, in the direction of travel, shouting “Congratulations!” they are sprinkled with cereals and coins.

They are met on the porch by the presenter and parents.
Dear newlyweds! By tradition, the people dearest to you - your parents - meet you here. Mom is holding a wedding loaf in her hands as a symbol of well-being and prosperity. Newlyweds! Break off a piece of bread and salt it properly! You have the opportunity last time annoy each other. Yes, add more salt... Now exchange pieces of bread. Look at each other with tenderness and feed each other!
The newlyweds feed each other.

And now we will see who will be the head of the family! Come on, bring the glasses here! And now on the count of three! drain the glasses to the bottom. Whoever is first is in charge. Once. Two. Three!
The newlyweds are drinking. All the guests are sick.

Witnesses:
-What kind of barrier is this?
- The border, but not a simple one:
family life ahead,
behind - single.
You have a pass, friends,
To a house called Family?

The newlyweds show their marriage certificate.
Let me tell you briefly - the document is in order!

Come on in, hurry up
The wedding feast is calling you!
We invite everyone to the feast,
For wedding hospitality.

Everyone goes into the hall.

Today there is joy in this house
For family, friends, acquaintances.
Today there is a big holiday here,
Because two are cute
Two loving, beautiful
They became husband and wife.

Make yourself comfortable, dear guests, because a wedding is a long affair! Choose a more cheerful neighbor, someone you can talk to, and a nicer neighbor, whom you can look after. Men are closer to the snack, and women are closer to the drink. Everyone’s responsibilities include: pouring, topping up, not depriving everyone of your neighbors and not forgetting yourself. Now, get the champagne ready!

I ask everyone to raise their glasses,
Congratulate the young standing,
To herald the beginning of the wedding
And a new life for two!
May this day be like a bright holiday
Will flow joy into your home
And your life will be decorated forever
Hope, Happiness and Love!
And let love dawn
Doesn't go out for many years
Just let it be “bitter” at the wedding,
Never in your life!

And now, dear guests, do not be shy, gain strength before the festive program. Help yourself while we read to you

RULES OF CONDUCT AT OUR WEDDING
1. You can't be bored, you can joke.
2. You can’t be sad, you can sing and dance.
3. Look at other people's wives and husbands,
Don't forget about your own.
4. We forbid you to swear,
Fight, argue under the table.
If you've had a little too much to drink,
It's better to go to sleep in silence.
5. To everyone without further explanation
Keep your place
Pouring into your neighbor's pocket
Juice or wine is prohibited.
6. Don’t grumble or swear,
Don't go kissing everyone,
Don't get angry under any circumstances,
Everyone has fun from the heart.
7.If someone makes a mistake
I took my sadness with me,
Put it in the refrigerator immediately
For cutlets to the cook.
8. If you are about to leave
Found slightly
Wear other people's things
This is really not a problem.
But we strictly prohibit
Go home then
When next to you will be
Someone else's husband or wife!
10 minutes for a feast

Guests, have you taken your glasses?
- Yes!
Friendly, did you have fun?
- Yes!
Then "Bitter!" - let's shout to them -
"Bitter! Bitter!" - young.
Kiss, newlyweds,
Let those kisses be countless,
Otherwise, the poor invitees
It’s bitter to drink and bitter to eat!
Let's go for this couple
Let's drink a full glass!

Meeting the guests
Today everyone will sing more than ____.
____ will dance the most.
Everyone will shout “Bitterly!” the loudest. ____.
Everyone will drink more ____.
Today ____ will give ____one hundred rubles.
____ will happily give ____ his TV.
And ____ will give ____ herself.
Now ____ will lend money to everyone. No recoil.
The most beautiful today is ____.
The most shy person today is ____.
The hungriest person at the wedding is ____.
After the wedding, ____ will leave on foot.
____ will leave by car.
And ____ and ____ will have difficulty leading ____ away.
In an hour, ____ will say that he is cool.
After an hour and a half, ____ will say that he sneezed on everyone.
In two hours ____ won't say anything.
____ will fall asleep at 10 p.m.
____ will fall asleep at 11 p.m.
At 23:30 ____ will already wake up.
Tomorrow, improve your health, ____ invites everyone.
____ will arrive tomorrow with a box of beer.
____ undertakes to bring dried fish.
And ____ and ____ will be cooking fish soup from 5 am.
Everyone drinks ____ to their health.
For the health of the young and everyone I have already drunk ____ seven times.
A word to the parents.

Toast to parents
Let's raise a cheerful spell
For those who raised this glorious couple.
Who in life knew neither sleep nor peace,
Forged such happiness for them.
The parents are sad, a little sad.
We will not judge them harshly for this.
After all, this has long been their eternal destiny.
Each of us would like to support them.
For your work and worries, for everything you could,
Let the children bow to you to the ground.
And we, in turn, are good guests,
For your parental work, we will simply tell you:
Let time fly, but don't grow old
Let your grandchildren grow up, make you younger at heart,
Good luck to you, a huge increase in health,
We raise a festive toast to you.
Presentation of comic documents
- young,
response to young parents,
Let's raise our glasses!

Presentation of comic documents
- parents, others.
The floor is given to grandparents.
First dance of the young

Oh, how the bride looks in love,
Oh, how excited the proud groom is.
The first waltz is for you young people,
First dance for you two.
Those who do not want to sit still to the sounds of a waltz,
Feel free to join the bride and groom.

Competition for witnesses
The witness lies down on chairs, candy is scattered over her, and the last one is placed on her lips. The witness must collect them all with his hands tied.

Toast for witnesses
For those who took honorable care,
From now on I must for many years in a row
To follow with desire, with joy, with eagerness,
So that there is peace and harmony in the family of friends.
So that the wards walk together
Dear bright, sunny, big
Before the wedding, before the silver one,
Well, then - golden until the wedding!
We drink, as you noticed,
For young witnesses.

Table game for guests.

Envelopes for the bride's guests:
1. Honey, should we buy a mink coat?
2. Zolotko, will you give me your entire salary?
3. My sun, will you serve me coffee and a bun in the morning?
4. Dear, will you buy me outfits every day?
5. Darling, do you want us to have three girls and no boys?
6. Good, will you help me with the housework?
Envelopes for the groom's guests:
1. Dream, dream, my beloved.
2. If wages allow.
3. As you say, my only one.
4. Everything depends on you, dear.
5. I only dream about this, my dear.
6. Well, you say the same. Wait and see.

Lighting up the family hearth.
Happiness decided to leave one house. It's hard to say why, but it decided. “But first,” said happiness, “I will fulfill one wish of each member of the family in which I lived for many years. What do you want?” - happiness asked the hostess of the house. And she replied that she did not have a mink coat, and the hostess received a fur coat. Happiness asked the adult daughter of the hostess: “What do you want?” - and she replied that she wanted to marry an overseas prince - and she married an overseas prince. Happiness asked the owner’s son: “What do you want?” “I want,” he says, “a bicycle, I will be happy if there is a bicycle,” and the boy got a bicycle. And already on the threshold of the house, happiness saw the owner and asked: “What do you want?” The owner thought and said: “I want the warmth of the family hearth to never leave my house.” And happiness fulfilled the owner’s request and did not leave this house, because happiness lives only where the family hearth burns!”

At a noisy wedding table
Like a beacon of friendship and kindness
The two of you will light it up now
Star of hope and dreams.

Let's raise our glasses to this small and still very young hearth! But he will grow up, get stronger and be able to warm both the young and their children, and their relatives and friends.

Competition for guests
Pour-drink-snack.

Distribution of responsibilities (balloons)

Competition for mothers
Mothers can tell by their voice:
1. The bride’s mother identifies her son-in-law among other guys who take turns saying: “Mother-in-law, I love you.”
2. The groom’s mother identifies the daughter-in-law by her voice among the other girls, who take turns saying: “I can’t bear to get married.”
3. Mothers together determine the voices of the young among other couples, who take turns saying: “Mom, it’s us!”

Dance competition for couples (with a balloon).
Each couple is given a balloon, which the partners must hold between their foreheads (the backs of their heads, backs, bellies, shoulder blades, butts, knees, at chest level - at the discretion of the organizer; during the competition, the method of holding the ball at the command of the leader can be changed), the couples dance, preferably to fast music and preferably in the nature of the music. The pairs that drop the ball are eliminated.
Table competition for guests
And now the color competition. Dear guests, take a look at what color clothes you wore to the wedding celebration. Pay attention to your neighbor's clothes.
Who came dressed in red? These people are joyful, beautiful, independent, and value the fullness of life. Always ready for love, in the sense of a great feeling. They prefer to spend their holidays in the south. Let's drink to the red one.
Who is wearing white clothes? Often naive, honest people, with an untarnished reputation, kind and decent. They prefer to relax among snowy plains and polar bears. Please note, even if you drank for red, if you also have white in your clothes, you will have to drink again.
The black color of clothing indicates that we are dealing with talented people who are capable of bewitching absolutely everyone. They love black caviar and black coffee. Sexually attractive, fertile in everything! They like to relax at their lovers' dachas.
Cloth blue guarantees their owners a noble origin and romance. These are loyal, nice people, they worry about literally everything and everyone.
They like to vacation everywhere, just to fly on a plane.
The green color of the outfit indicates that these are people overwhelmed by hope and dreams. Always fresh and attractive. For recreation they prefer the nearby forest.
Who came dressed in yellow? These people are pleasant, warm, romantic, but... treacherous. Gold is preferred for jewelry. They strive to take a place in the upper class. They like to relax on “Golden Sands”, they like to listen to “Golden Ring”, they like to be called “Zolotse”.

Determining the sex of the child.

Word to the witnesses

Presentation of gifts (to eat by witnesses)
Order for a new family.

Determination of the groom (by ear, by hand),
Definition of bride (by the elbow, by the knee).

Competitions

For couples with tennis balls. (drive through partner's trousers).

Hospital (on the sheets write “maternity home”, “hospital”, “bynya”, “registry office”, “bedroom”, “work”.
Questions:
-how often do you visit this place?
-how long have you been there?
- what are you doing there?
- Who do you go there with?
- what do you take with you?
- Do you enjoy going there?
- Who would you dream of going there with?)

Competition for young people "explanatory and justificatory" competition. You can call it “I believe - I don’t believe.” The situation for the competition can be set as follows: “Three months of married life pass, and the young wife comes home at three in the morning. What will she say in her defense, and will her husband believe it? So, the husband opens the door, first looks sternly at his watch, then he looks at his wife and asks the question: “Darling, why is it so late?” In response, the bride offers her own options for excuses, and the groom accepts them or not, saying “I believe it” or, conversely, “I don’t believe it!”

To attract the parents of the young couple to the sweet kissing moment, the presenter can ask the bride and groom questions: “Tanya, in high school was there at least one subject, a lesson in which you were taught to kiss?
They didn't teach Tanya how to kiss. Let's ask the groom. Alexander, did the institute’s program include classes where you could master the art of kissing? No, there was no such thing in the institute program. What to do? Who will teach you a kissing lesson? Probably, as always, parents. We ask the parents of the bride and groom to rise and kiss each other firmly but tenderly. And at the wedding feast we will shout to them a friendly “Bitter!”
Newlyweds' vows.
In the midst of the wedding fun, the host offers the guests a game of Spin the Bottle. Brings out a large inflatable bottle of champagne that will spin during the game. On the tray there is a place with words. The guests stand in a circle, the presenter is in the center.
Whoever the bottle points to takes a card with a word, and I explain the meaning of this word in our kissing game. The bottle is spun and the cards are sorted out during the game.
Here are the words and their meanings:
Fur - kiss everyone's neighbors.
Pipes - kiss your neighbor on the lips.
Period - kiss whoever you want on the cheek.
Arrow - let the girls kiss you.
Fingers - let the boys kiss you.
Verse - the groom will send an air kiss.
Bride - kiss the one whose place is next to you.

Competition for young people - to dress a doll with tied hands.

TOAST TO THE GUESTS
-Did you drink to the young people?
All: -Drank!
-Did you drink to your parents?
All: -Drank!
- To become closer and dearer to all of us,
Let's drink to the guests!

Bouquet and garter toss.

Well, you can escort the newlyweds from the wedding along a corridor of burning candles held by the guests. The presenter will say that let so many happy stars illuminate their life path together, that let so many lights light up in the homes of relatives and friends who are always ready to help and give the newlyweds the warmth and joy of meeting.

The toastmaster is invited not so that he can amuse the guests, but so that with his chatter he increases the pauses between toasts and saves the hosts vodka.
Folk wisdom

Wedding scenario without toastmaster

A wedding is an event that needs to be organized in a touching, fun and beautiful way, especially for your nearest and dearest. Then such a holiday remains in the memory of the heroes of the occasion and the guests present for a long time. Therefore, if you decide to hold a wedding yourself for small company, without resorting to the help of a professional toastmaster, then this scenario involves significant savings. After all, in wedding scenarios without toastmaster The leader will be the person who took upon himself (relative, witnesses) to conduct this celebration.

The traditional wedding scenario is implemented in the process of marriage, which, according to the plan, consists of certain blocks:

Bride ransom

At every wedding there is a ritual of bride price, which has long been famous for serious trials, because representatives of one clan paid another for the bride. Nowadays, everything is much simpler; the ransom scenario is prepared for the groom by the bridesmaids and relatives, giving everyone a positive mood for the upcoming celebration. It all starts with the groom meeting at the house of the bride's parents, where he is tested. In this peculiar game, the groom and the witness bargain, showing miracles of ingenuity and wit in offering various types"barter": champagne, sweets, outdated banknotes, money "dolls", ridiculous gifts. The point is that the groom should not rush to shell out money. After haggling a lot and agreeing on the “price” with the bridesmaids, they finally buy the bride and go to the registry office.

Marriage registration at the registry office

The marriage is solemnly registered at the registry office, where the organizers include video filming and photography in the wedding scenario without a toastmaster. Since the criterion for this scenario, which ensures minimal costs for organizing a celebration, we will choose the option when photo and video shooting will be carried out by guests who have the appropriate skills.

Holiday photo shoot

On the way to the celebration site, the bride and groom will have a photo session at memorable places and beautiful scenery cities. Where one of the guests also acts as a photographer.

Wedding feast

Newlyweds meeting

The newlyweds are solemnly welcomed in the banquet hall; with the economy option, the wedding can be held at home. According to tradition, parents meet with bread and salt, where they bless the newlyweds. This tradition dates back to ancient times, when the bride after her wedding went to live in the house of her husband’s parents. However, in practice, the speech is first made jointly by the mother-in-law and father-in-law, and then by the father-in-law and mother-in-law. Next, they determine who will be the head of the family. Breaking a plate for good luck, after which everyone is invited to the table.

First wedding toast

The first toast is voiced by the host, in our case one of the guests. Often the first toast includes a recounting of a story, a legend, or a statement from a great person that is worth pondering. Thus, the wedding toast becomes not only wishes, but also plays the role of advice for the future for the newlyweds and their relatives.

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From now on, two hearts sound in rhythm.
The union was held together by two rings.
Now, along the road of life
The two of you will go to the end.
We wish you great happiness,
May there always be spring.
So that you never know bad weather
And their hearts were pure.
We raise our glasses higher,
We wish you love and happiness! Bitterly!

Newlyweds' first dance

The beautiful and touching first dance of newlyweds is a tradition formed over centuries and is still alive in our time. At every wedding, the newlyweds are given the entire dance floor for their first dance. How you want this dance to be remembered by the heroes of the occasion and their guests, because the beautiful first dance of the newlyweds touches the soul of everyone present. It is important to express all your feelings in it, to show how the newlyweds love each other.

Table games and competitions

After the first dance of the newlyweds, give the guests the opportunity to have a snack, but no more than 5 minutes, otherwise the guests will start drinking on their own whenever they have to. And while the guests are having a snack, invite them to play, for example, the “Auction of Affectionate Words”, where the guests say affectionate words to young guests (Beautiful, smart, charming, etc.), who will say final word will receive a special prize...

Such competitions should be held if guests are tired or want to have a snack. It is also possible by time, for example every hour, since the wedding is held without a toastmaster. That responsible person should keep an eye on this. For example this one table competition for a wedding for a small company will only require the organizer to purchase a couple of kilograms of sweets. All participants take turns taking as many candies from the bag as they want. The catch is that most will try to grab more sweets. But after everyone has sweets in their hands, the host announces that for each sweet the participant must tell something interesting about the groom or the bride. This competition will allow two families to become much closer.

Gifts and congratulations at the wedding

While the guests are eating and listening, according to the wedding plan, it is necessary to present gifts and congratulations from guests and relatives. The parents of the bride and groom are the first to congratulate. Then you can go clockwise, so that it doesn’t hurt who is first, all the other guests of the wedding celebration.

Presenter The most pleasant time has come for a young family - replenishing the family budget. Their parents gave them a savings book, and we, the guests, must fill it up.

A savings book should be prepared in advance, preferably of a huge size and with glued-in pockets, on which inscriptions should be made: “for a beer for the husband,” “for a fur coat for the wife,” “for the education of the first child,” and so on. Witnesses go around the guests in a circle, collecting contributions. Guests, putting their gift envelope into a certain pocket, must loudly say for what needs they are giving money. After receiving gifts to continue the festive banquet, you can have a dance break...

Active wedding competitions

It's no secret that we don't celebrate weddings, but play! This suggests that games and competitions are an integral part of the wedding scenario, especially without a toastmaster, so the mood of the guests directly depends on this program.

Competition "Find the odd one out." In this competition there is no need to worry about props, since all you need to do is stock up on a couple of packs of colored clothespins and blindfolds; you can use ordinary scarves that every woman has. 2-4 couples take part in the competition. The men are given the same number of clothespins. The women's task will be to remove them as quickly as possible while blindfolded. Music plays during the competition. She stops when the first pair completes the task.

We determine the gender of the first-born in the form of a competition. The guests stand in two lines. The first participants of both teams are awarded balls. The task is to send the ball to the end of the row as quickly as possible without using your hands. The final participant will have to pop the ball. Whoever can do it faster will be the color the parents collect for the baby's dowry.

Competition "Drink to the bottom." Several couples participate in this wedding competition. Girls sit on chairs and hold a glass between their legs, and guys press a bottle of champagne with their feet. The young man’s task is to get to the girl, pour champagne into a glass without using his hands, and also drink it to the bottom without using his hands. The winner is the pair that completed the task faster and more accurately than others.

A proven way to make your celebration memorable is wedding competitions. What they will be depends not only on your preferences, but also on the status, financial situation, and age of the guests. It is necessary to alternate active competitions with dances, songs, musical breaks, table games, and quizzes.

Comic scenes for a wedding

A little comic mysticism can be added to the wedding evening. This is very original congratulations for a wedding in the form of a scene. You will need an artistic guest who will be dressed up, for example, as a clairvoyant. Any paraphernalia will do. Hang everything you have at hand on it: jewelry, spiders, rats, snakes, a crystal ball, a broom, scarves, cards. The bride and groom are given pens and sheets of paper and asked to write down four lines from their favorite songs, more is possible, but then you need to add questions to this sketch. As soon as this task is completed, the leaves are handed over to the clairvoyant, and she enters the hall:

Clairvoyant Hello guests and newlyweds! A vision of your wedding came to me, and I hurried to it. I want to show you my forecast, how much you love each other, and make your dream come true - to read the thoughts of your other half!

Such wedding congratulation scenes are best done at the end of the evening, when the guests are already tipsy. But at first such scenes keep the audience in suspense, and then cheerful laughter is heard. The presenter begins to ask strange woman questions, and she, pretending to go into a trance, reads the answers from the sheets.

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What is the groom thinking about now?
What did the bride think after the first kiss?
What song did the groom hear during their first dance?
What will the bride think about on her first wedding anniversary?
What did the groom think when he first saw his chosen one?
The bride's first thought after the marriage proposal was made to her?
How does the groom feel after meeting his future mother-in-law?
What thoughts are currently swirling in the bride’s head?

Who's Next - Bouquet Toss

The bride throws a bouquet to determine the next couple. She must throw it to the crowd herself. unmarried girls. Each of them really wants to take possession of it. After all, according to signs, then the lucky woman will have to marry after her donor, i.e. become a bride.

Birthday cake or end of celebration

The celebration ends, namely the prepared wedding scenario without toastmaster two events - formal (cutting the wedding cake and treating everyone present) and symbolic (depriving the bride and groom of their status and turning them into husband and wife. The mother-in-law removes the veil from the bride, and the mother-in-law removes the boutonniere from the groom. This seems to emphasize the specialness and uniqueness of the day weddings.) You can also set off fireworks in honor of the birth new family. The bride and groom thank those present and leave the celebration before everyone else. The remaining guests continue to celebrate the wedding of the newlyweds.

This is the most democratic option, as it does not tire the groom and witness too much with complex competitions, as well as overcoming various obstacles on the way to the bride. Of course, some things will still have to be done, because what is a wedding without a ransom. There are many bride price scenarios, you just need to choose the one that suits your wedding.

It is necessary that all parts of the wedding ceremony - introductory, ceremonial, congratulatory, games, final - smoothly transition into one another, and guests can eat, jump, and laugh in moderation. To do this, the wedding celebration script includes competitions, games and sweepstakes, original skits and mini-performances that will cheer up the guests and help discover hidden talents. And this day will be remembered for many years.

If it happens that your friends’ wedding is small, but you want it to be remembered with all its cheerful mood, originality and comfort - feel free to get down to business, our wedding scenario for a small company without a toastmaster is exactly what you need. So, we carefully read the script, analyze what is needed for the wedding - props, decorations, wedding loaf and cake, prizes for competitions, etc. Next, all that remains is to bring everything to life and present your talent to your friends! The absence of a toastmaster does not prevent an interesting celebration of the most important day in the life of the newlyweds!

So, wedding scenario - 2017 without a toastmaster for a small company

We offer to take on the mission of leading the holiday to the witness and the witness, or the honorary matchmaker and matchmaker. Holding a wedding with loved ones for young people will give the evening a special charm. Believe me, the bride and groom will forever remember everything that their friends did for them on this day.

Well, preparations for the holiday are completed, the exciting day has arrived, the newlyweds, happy and excited, drove up to the wedding venue by car.

Meeting of the bride and groom

In order for guests not to languish while waiting for the bride and groom, who, as a rule, are usually late, before the arrival of the newlyweds, the groom and witness invite the guests to drink a glass of champagne and eat small fruit and meat snacks. Telephone communication with the bride and groom should be under the control of the witness and witness - they will be the main organizers of the wedding for a small company without a toastmaster.

So, at the moment when the wedding car drives up to the wedding yard for a small company without a toastmaster, the witnesses ask the guests present for their attention, because in a few moments the bride and groom will appear in the hall.

Romantic solemn music sounds. Witnesses begin the ceremony of meeting the newlyweds.

WITNESS: A woman and a man. These two words are inseparable. He was created to become the main thing in her life. She will always be his guiding star, which will lead him to success. Him, the man.

WITNESS: And together, in love, they will give life to beautiful children, they will delight their parents with new successes and achievements, new victories. All this will happen, but later. In the meantime...

WITNESS: Dear parents, relatives, friends!
Today the door of the restaurant "____" is open to family and friends, to those who want to raise a glass in honor of the young couple.

WITNESS: Every person in his life has significant dates and the most significant dates. Significant ones are the day of entry into school, graduation, first salary.

WITNESS: Today we celebrate the birthday of a young, but very beautiful story the love of two beautiful young people. To your thunderous applause, allow me to invite our groom Alexei into the hall!

Sounds rhythmic modern music, Alexey enters the hall.

WITNESS: Well, let's look into the eyes of our groom - we see that he is especially excited today - he has been looking forward to this day for 3 long years. Every evening he went to bed and woke up with the name of his beloved on his lips. For her, he is ready to say goodbye to his habits, bachelor frivolity, passion for football and fishing, and devote all his time to his beloved.

WITNESS: Let's all meet our bride Elena in the festive hall!
The exit of the angel with the bride. “Angel” sprinkles rose petals in front of the bride

WITNESS: Dear parents of young people, go up to your children and shower them with folk custom.

WITNESS: We'll tell you that your family was prolific.
Parents sprinkle young ones with rye

WITNESS: Sprinkle with spring wheat so that you are a couple in love.
Parents sprinkle wheat on young ones

WITNESS: We will sprinkle you with a handful of sweets so that you can live together for a hundred sweet years.

Parents sprinkle young ones with caramels

WITNESS: Dear parents, we ask you to bless your children for a happy family life.

WITNESS: Come to the people closest to you for a blessing. As per tradition, bow low to them three times.

WITNESS: Since ancient times, the loaf was considered the main bread of the Russian home. It is a symbol of fertility, procreation, family and tribal unity, happiness, health and well-being.

WITNESS: In its shape, the loaf is likened to the sun and, according to popular beliefs, is the incarnation of the Sun god, who descends to earth to take under his wing the newlyweds, who are entering into a long and happy life. So, kiss him three times in turn. And you, parents, give the loaf to the honorary matchmakers

Farewell to childhood

WITNESS: It seems that we could invite everyone to the table, but our bride still... has not said goodbye to her maiden name, and the groom has not said goodbye to his bachelor life. We desperately need to dot the “i’s” immediately.

WITNESS: I want the bride to tell us very loudly what her last name will be from now on.

The bride loudly announces her new surname.

WITNESS: Then, quickly write your old name on this balloon and release it into the sky to the applause of your guests.

The witness brings the bride a bouquet of balloons inflated with gel, colored markers, the bride writes her old surname on the balloons, and together with the groom sends all this beauty into the sky.
Gifts from guests

WITNESS: Dear bride and groom! Today the most dear and close people came to congratulate you.
Here, the falcon found Swan. They decided to build a nest,
To love each other and raise children,
And you need a lot of feathers for the nest, oh, how necessary!

WITNESS: Give for your grandchildren, and for the cradle..., - this is what grandmothers said a long time ago, but we will say frankly - young people need a material base: we will explain why...

WITNESS: In order to buy a chair to sit on, a table to sit at, a TV to watch,

WITNESS: A machine in which to wash diapers,
Carpet - so that there is something to knock the dust out of,
A car to take my mother-in-law for a ride,
A refrigerator so that you have somewhere to look often...

WITNESS: And therefore, I invite here – the counting and collection – the shaking out commission.
WITNESS: The chief accountant of our commission, also known as the FIRST MATCHMAN, Mr. ____________________.

WITNESS: The matchmakers accept flowers and gifts for the newlyweds and report to them, and I introduce each guest by name!
Well, our dear guests,
It's your turn now
Let each of the wallets, out of your pocket
The first one receives his contribution.

Don't forget about inflation
Even shares are donated,
And EUROS, and rubles, and dollars,
Banknotes of any color.
Both gold and silver
And other expensive goods.

Guests give gifts to the newlyweds. After this, the witnesses invite everyone to the festive table.

WITNESS: Allow me to start the wedding! Bride and groom, stand facing the guests. Bow the first time, and the second time, and the third time. Invite guests to the wedding table!

Wedding feast “Champagne fireworks”

To ensure that wedding guests for a small company without a toastmaster do not get bored, the witnesses will have to try a little. Before the first toast, invite all the guests to stand up, the men to take champagne in their hands, and to the applause of the guests, open all the bottles at the same time - you will get a wedding fireworks of champagne.

Toasts

Proclaim the first toast “For Love” immediately after the champagne fireworks. The second toast is usually proclaimed by the parents of the newlyweds. The third toast is to our own grandparents. The fourth toast is the godparents of the newlyweds. Fifth toast - dear uncles and aunts. After the fourth toast, have some fun for the bride and groom.

Fun for the bride and groom “While everyone is at home”

Witnesses present hearts made of cardboard to the bride and groom on two trays. The bride's questions and the groom's answers are written on the back of the heart. Witnesses invite the young people to take turns reading the texts from the hearts. Here are the options.

Bride's heartfelt questions:

1. The only one, will you help me clean the house?
2. My dear, is raising ostriches a profitable business?
3. My cat, will we vacation in the Canary Islands every year?
4. Bunny, I know that you love children. Would you mind starting a family football team?
5. Breadwinner, is it true that you will give me all your earnings?
6. My happiness, will you return home immediately after work?
7. My joy, will we have our own plane?
8.
“Hearty” answers from the groom:

1. As you say, my dearest!
2. We'll wait and see, my little bunny!
3. Definitely, my little fish!
4. I only dream about this, my love!
5. Everything is in your hands, dear!
6. Dream, dream, my dear!
7. If finances allow, my heart!
8.

Competitions in a wedding scenario without a toastmaster for a small company

Competition for the bride and groom “I recognize you from a million”

The first test is for the young wife. The bride is blindfolded. Several men are seated on chairs in the center of the hall. The bride is brought to the men, the bride’s task is to use her hands, feeling the men’s ears, to recognize her husband.

The second test is for the groom. Now he is blindfolded, and the girls are seated on chairs; they must take off their shoes and put their feet forward. The groom must guess by touch which of the ladies is his wife.

Competition for the mother of the groom and mother of the bride “Matchmaker”

For this competition you need to prepare props - two very long, 5-6 meters ropes, or rubber bands, you need to glue a ballpoint pen to them. The handles will symbolize the “needle”, the elastic bands will symbolize the “Thread”. Witnesses say that the mothers of our newlyweds are experienced women, they can glue and sew everything that is necessary and not necessary. Therefore, their task is to assemble a team of several men (4, 5 each), then sew them together. To do this, you need to insert a ballpoint pen with an elastic band into the left leg of the trousers, and take it out through the right one, then the next man is sewn on, and so on until the last one. The mom who succeeds first wins the “Magic Matchmaker” competition.

Competition for guests "Mutual Contact"

Among the guests you need to choose couples who actively dance. They are placed in the center of the hall. Men sit on chairs, women sit on their laps. The witness gives each pair a napkin.

The music is turned on, the pairs task is to use dance moves rub the napkin.

The most energetic couple who succeeded first receives a prize from the young couple.

Competition for youth “Christmas trees”

Witnesses select several couples for the competition. The guys are blindfolded and given props—drink cans pinned to clothespins. The task is to pin the “Toys” onto the “Christmas trees”. Then, partners are changed without opening their eyes, and they are offered to remove the “toys”.

The young man's task is to find all the clothespins while blindfolded. Needed: 10-12 clothespins for each pair, empty tin cans, scarves to cover your eyes.

"Aerial Dance"

Couples should dance holding a balloon with their forehead, back, stomach, buttocks... The music should be modern and fast.

End of the holiday

A beautiful end to the holiday will be the ceremony of removing the veil from the bride. It should be accompanied by beautiful and romantic music. The groom takes off the bride's veil, then kisses his wife and dances the first family dance with her.
Then, the bride and groom must cut their wedding cake together, eat the first piece of cake together, and treat the remaining pieces to their guests.

In parting, the bride and groom thank everyone present at the holiday for the joy of sharing the holiday of love with them.

Then, all together - the guests and newlyweds rejoice at the wedding fireworks in honor of their love, which will illuminate the night sky...

We hope that you liked the wedding scenario for a small company without a toastmaster and you will definitely bring it to life.